So, I was watching this Uche Jumbo Rodriguez's film, Mrs Somebody with a friend of mine and her first boyfriend's character really struck me. We entered into serious discussion so I did some research and hence, this post. Why will a guy who has all it takes to maintain a wife and family, is under pressure from home to take a wife, is matured enough to do so or has even proposed (you don wear engagement ring for more than two years ooo) and yet, has no wedding date is in sight???? Sweetheart, it seems to me that you have been wasting time on Mr Left. Today, we will discuss some of the warning signs you need to know that Le boo is far from heading to the altar. You may just be one of those on the list "Good enough for GF but not Wifey"
- He evades friends and family: You have been dating a guy for years and you do not know his close friends nor any member of your family and avoids knowing yours even when you have tried
- Improper introduction: Everyone around knows you are his babe, fine. But what does he introduce you as? Friend, girlfriend or what??
- Indecisive: He has no voice of his own, every idea you bring is OK. He relies on his mother for every single ting. Babe, except you are on mumsy's good books, your dream of walking down the altar is on a longggggggggggg thing
- He has commitment issues: Its OK to change a job or business line if you feel the next one is more lucrative but a guy that hops from job to job every single year has commitment issues. Mind you, it may not be just job he has commitment issues with.
- No value for your opinion: Does he even seek your opinion at all? If he has future plans with you, of course he should ask for your opinion especially on crucial matters. When asked and you offer constructive opinion, does he make use of them or does he ask just for the sake of asking.
- Little or no interest in your affairs: A guy who cannot tell who you really are, what you like or dislike, how you really feel after a full year of dating obviously has no plans for you.
- Pure critic: Nothing you do is ever good enough. He knows everything while you don't. He overreacts at every single mistake. If you are not good enough in trivial matters, na for wife you wan dey good enough?
- Thinks you nag a lot: No man wants a wife who will nag him to death. If he starts complaining often that you nag too much, sweetheart, he is seriously looking for an exit.
- Sudden change in attitude: When you have dated a guy for too long and suddenly, his attitude changes negatively, he is giving you a serious clue which should not be ignored at all
- Gets agitated by the M-word: Ok, am not saying you should do the proposal or start asking for wedding date like two weeks into a relationship but if you have been with a guy for a while, you should at least know where you are headed. If he gets constantly irritated of defensive over the M-word, you should seriously find the smelling rat.
- Playboy: The guy flirts for Africa and you are giving excuses for him. I just don't get it when I hear girls say "A man can love you but still cheat on you" As in what naa? Oh girl, you may be the Mrs Right sha or just a pawn in the game of chess
- Single but married: He asks you to move in with him because he really loves and misses you and all the rest of the jargon and you agreed. You guys have lived together for how long? 6 months, a year or more?? Why buy a cow when you can get free milk.
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